February 26th, 2010

A Love Letter

Letter & Ribbon

Leaves & Stars

Ribbon

Stars

Butterfly

Letter
In case the photograph is too small/my handwriting is illegible, you can read the whole thing in a larger size here.

To say Radical Self Love is but a 28 day journey beginning the 1st of February and concluding as the month is up, is quite the oversight. Finding happiness with yourself has no start or finish line. It’s not a race you try to run as quickly as possible or have to complete in x amount of time. It’s a state of mind. Love, happiness, balance, … whatever have you, it’s a conscious decision you make and the actions you take move you towards that ultimate goal.

“You are always living the life you create. If your life does not feel right, create something better.” (Anon.)

I choose to find as much positivity as I can within my day to day life and cast out as much negative energy as possible. I want to make a change in my outlook on life, and part of that change comes with learning to be confident in who I am. To love myself. Maybe I don’t quite believe everything in the above letter to myself just yet, but I’m learning. And the more I read it, the more I find myself moving further away from a wary “I’m okay” to an enthusiastic “I’m awesome!”. While I’m not quite ready to profess my love at the top of my lunges just yet, I think it’s safe to say my thoughts lean slightly closer to the latter statement than the former. And considering where I was only a few years ago, I think that’s a massive, massive shift in my perspective. Getting to a resounding “I love me!” will take time, and maybe a lot more of it, but it’s time I’m willing to invest.

P.S. I’m really happy with the way these photographs came out. I’m no photographer by any means, but I think they turned out fairly nice. A little grainy, but I don’t think there’s anything I can do about that with a cheap point-and-snap camera.

Krissy

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18 comments · jump to comment form »

Caity » 26 February 2010

Definitely good photos, first of all. Secondly, I love that idea and that’s a great letter. Self improvement is always a great idea.
(Caity’s last blog post: I wanted soup!)

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Krissy » March 2nd, 2010

Thanks, Caity! Coming from a budding photography like you, I appreciate the compliment! :D

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Tess » 26 February 2010

You took those? :o For a regular snap-and-shoot, those are damn good! I can’t seem to get my photographs to stop being grainy, how tragic. :P I definitely love the feel of those, very dreamy!

I think writing oneself is a brilliant idea! My Aunt Andie suggested I write down one thing I like/love about myself, and while I haven’t done that yet, writing a love letter to yourself is a great way to stay positive, and gain confidence. Lovely idea, as said, Krissy! :D

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Krissy » March 2nd, 2010

*Tess squish* Thanks, lovely! I had to up the brightness a little bit and sharpen one of two of them in Photoshop, but otherwise, I have the wonderful morning sunshine in the guest bedroom to thank for these! I’m definitely going to be taking more pictures in that room of the house from now on!

You should start writing your letter. :D I keep mine in my bedside table and try to remember each of the things I wrote down every morning when I wake up.

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Zmaga » 26 February 2010

The photos are great!

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Krissy » March 2nd, 2010

Thanks, Zmaga! :D

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Tamara Nicole » 26 February 2010

Gorgeous and romantic, love it!

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Krissy » March 2nd, 2010

Thanks, Tamara! :D

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Angie » 26 February 2010

I’ve been hoping people will continue with the Radical Self Love thing long after February ends. I started wonder about that yesterday. Feb is almost over, but this is cool and I don’t want it to end.

What a great idea for the letter and the pics. The inside of your head must be a lovely place.
(Angie’s last blog post: Belief Questions)

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Krissy » March 2nd, 2010

It’s been so awesome, hasn’t it? I’ve started following all the #radicalselflove posts on Twitter, and it’s so wonderful to see so much love out there!

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Marie » 26 February 2010

Ah, those pictures you took are so nice! I can’t believe they weren’t taken professionally.

And the letter you wrote is so very lovely. I hadn’t heard of Radical Self-Love until right now, but I wish I had earlier in the month, because it seems like a great idea and project.
(Marie’s last blog post: Internet Finds: Fictional Facebook Statuses)

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Krissy » March 2nd, 2010

Aww, thank you, Marie! ♥ I’m super duper flattered!

And you should totally check out Radical Self Love – it’s ongoing! And awesome!

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Julia » 26 February 2010

This is post made me smile. Maybe I should do one myself as well, have to work on the self-esteem ;)

I think the photos are so pretty, such a stunning light you have there!

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Krissy » March 2nd, 2010

Aw, I’m glad! :D And you should try writing a letter to yourself. It was strangely comforting. It still is. I may not always feel content with myself, but I know that on my down days, I’ll be able to look back at this letter and think, “You know what, I’m pretty cool, and if I believe it, then I’ll be just fine.”

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Ally » 26 February 2010

Those photos are excellent, so beautiful!
Such a great idea/project to work on self love. Awesome letter. I love looking at people’s handwriting, yours is so lovely.

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Krissy » March 2nd, 2010

Thanks, Ally! ♥

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Manda » 26 February 2010

Your photos are beautiful! And for the record: YOU’RE AWESOME. Don’t let anyone ever tell you otherwise <3
(Manda's last blog post: What Actually Happened)

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Krissy » March 2nd, 2010

Dude, YOU’RE awesome! ♥ I’m so glad for TFL and that it allowed me to meet someone like you. ♥

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Alice » 27 February 2010

I agree with Manda!!! xMillion!

Such beautiful photographs too!
(Alice’s last blog post: Top Tunes …. February 2010)

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Krissy » March 2nd, 2010

You guys are the greatest! Really. ♥ I don’t know what I’d do without you, Alice. ♥

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La Grenadine » 27 February 2010

Wow !
Such a great job you did with that photos !
I love them !
(La Grenadine’s last blog post: Sélection shopping de la semaine)

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Krissy » March 2nd, 2010

Aw, thanks, lovely! :D

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Zmaga » 27 February 2010

Another comment from me :)
I have an award for you – check it out here:
http://zmagasupergirl.blogspot.com/2010/02/honored.html
(Zmaga’s last blog post: Honored)

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Krissy » March 4th, 2010

Apologies for the super late reply, but thank you so so much, lovely! I’m flattered! :D ♥

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Simone » 27 February 2010

I am so GLAD that I clicked your name and read this post. You have successfully made my day a little bit more brighter. Lately, things have been a little crazy and I’m been down and out but I never really knew why, I just knew I was UNhappy.

My life doesn’t feel right so it’s best for me to create something better! Usually when someone asks how I am I just say “I’m okay” or “I’m good” but it would be great if I could say “I’m awesome” or “I couldn’t better.” I’m not as confident with myself anymore, not like I use to be. I’m just unhappy. I need to get a better outlook on life and get to the point where I can love myself for the person that I am. So, now I have a plan :)
(Simone’s last blog post: There’s A THIN Line Between Love And Hate.)

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Krissy » March 13th, 2010

Firstly, I apologize for such a late response! I don’t know what’s come over me.

But anyhow, I’m so so glad that somehow my post managed to make your day a little brighter. Just knowing that makes my day brighter! It’s like a cycle of shininess!

I wish you all the best with your personal journey to happiness, and I hope someday soon you’ll be able to say “I’m awesome!” to yourself and believe it with all your heart. :D

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Heather » 28 February 2010

This is all such a good idea! At my school, we’re having a ‘random acts of kindness’ week for everyone to give out cards, flowers, and make small gifts for friends and others. I feel so much joy is in the air lately, despite how sad our world can be.
(Heather’s last blog post: Superhero(ine))

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Krissy » March 18th, 2010

Aw, that’s such a lovely idea to do at school! I hope your random acts of kindness week went well and spread lots of extra love and happiness! :D

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Aury » 28 February 2010

I’m glad you got results from your special month. It’s great to desire to improve yourself in various ways and I feel that people sometimes forget how important it is to love the person you are all the time.
(Aury’s last blog post: In My Shoes: Please write two)

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Melody » 28 February 2010

These photos are absolutely beautiful. And thank you for this post, too. I am a person with plenty of self-loathe, and I find that I’m the only one who can ever change that. This is an inspiring and profound post. :)

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Krissy » March 13th, 2010

Thank you, Melody. ♥

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Zoya » 28 February 2010

What a great idea!!! They say that loving yourself is the first step on the path to happiness
(Zoya’s last blog post: The Third Gender – Also Known As Fa’fafine)

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Krissy » March 6th, 2010

I wholeheartedly agree! My resolution this year was to try to bring as much positivity into my life as possible. And while I was originally focusing on the little things in life, I figured, let’s go big and make substantial changes in the way I see myself as well as the world! It’s been great thus far. :D

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miku » 6 March 2010

“To say Radical Self Love is but a 28 day journey beginning the 1st of February and concluding as the month is up, is quite the oversight. ” This is so true. I think radical self love is more like a way of life.

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Krissy » March 13th, 2010

You’re totally right! I hope it catches on! What a revelation. :D

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